I met Bob at Little Country in Flint thru his friend Matt in October 2006. We started a fun relationship, everything was going great we spent three to four nights with each other, our relationship was very passionate for the first three years we were together. Then I got pregnant, he started acting funny and it seemed like he was avoiding me. Finally I confronted him when I was six months pregnant, when he finally told me he was married, and also admitted to having two children. The entire three years I had been dating him he was telling me he was living with his sister and her kids and she was a bitch, which covered for all the times I couldn’t call him. He convinced me that he would be there for me and our baby and to give him a chance to make everything right, he promised me again and again that he was going to leave her and there was nothing between them because I have been going to their house and having this affair with him in their bed thinking this whole time that they are separated this whole time. How else could we be together in their house. I convinced myself that he was telling me the truth, until I caught him cheating on me with Michelle from Lapeer, of course he told HER he was married but separated, but nothing about me and his new baby. I had enough then I wasn’t going to go back to him, but I did. Long story short he cheated on me again and again, now six years down the road he hasn’t changed he still lives with his wife, although she got some wind something was happening because she finally started coming back to her own house last year. Now he’s cheating with someone else and I’m sure he’s feeding her all the same bullshit he fed me for all those years. I finally worked up enough courage to stop keeping my daughter a secret and when I told everyone he promptly told me I did not exist anymore, and I ruined everything for all of us. Up until I told him I was through with him he was seeing me, his wife, a third woman and telling me we were good.

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