Horatio Major is on his second marriage (to a woman he was seeing and got pregnant while still with the first). I have known him for many years. He is a cheater. He is the type of man who is selfish and never satisfied. All he cares about is himself. He is a very mean and cllous, cold hearted person. If you come across him, do not give him the time of day. You will save yourself heartache in the end!
This post was submitted by Anonymous.
I know Horatio Major (Big Shot) very well and what was written about him is all true and more. He may come across as a very self confident person but he is weak and to fill his weakness he has to surround himself by 3-5 different women telling them lies after lies, breaking up marriages and has no remorse for it. He moves on to the next female who will give him time. I know of 6 different females (and his wife) he has been with since May of 2009, not sure how serious he was with them but I do know of three that he claimed to love and wanted to be with for a long time to come.
If you do meet him don’t be flattered by his ways because his whole persona is a lie!!!
I have had the unfortunate pleasure of knowing Horatio Major for the past few years, and THANK GOD……I have never had any kind of relationship with him. Men like him need to be castrated and place on an Island by themselves. The fact that he could find the time to treat women the way he does and think that no one knows, or no one will ever find out, tells me that he’s surly ignorant to the world around him!! I feel truly sorry for all the women whom he has hurt and is still hurting, and for his wife who may or may not be oblivious to his game. God doesn’t sleep and does NOT like ugly…..and Horatio Major must be seriously lacking a MAJOR aspect of his life why he feels that sleeping around with 6 different women is okay!!!
Outrageous! I didn’t know there was such a web-site. I wish I would have seen this before I encountered Ratio Major! If I’m not included in the six different woman from the previous comment, make that 7 women plus his wife since 2009.
No I’m not proud to have been with a married man but I was and it got me nothing but a broken heart, it won’t happen again. But this is caution to all the other women out there who do encounter him. Watch out for the “we’ll always be friends,” “this isn’t just sexual for me,” “we should get phones, so I can reach you anytime.” Then when it’s over he becomes very mean and lies about everything that happened, “I don’t know what your talking about,” “you do realize I’m married, it was never going anywhere.” But he said I love you all the time and made promises. Don’t try and tell Horatio your thoughts or problems because he won’t listen, but when he has problems or wants to talk about himself you listen. He is so self absorbed with himself. He thinks he is so loved by all women. If a women makes a comment to him he believes they want him. He needs his ego to be fed by numerous women by them telling him how fine he is. He has a sickness, lies all the time and cheats, probably wasn’t a day faithful to his wife(s), he needs help! The name of this website should be HORATIO MAJOR. He is pathetic! He will get his one day!!!
A friend told me to google his name and see what comes up. This is cruel but funny! I have known Horatio Major for many, many years and had a relationship with him when he was suppose to be getting a divorce from his wife and after a few months found out she was carrying his second child. I feel very sorry for his wife and his children. If she only knew what he says about her, so disrespectful. (People Advocate, yes, yes, you are right God don’t like ugly) The disheartening part is the life he is leading his boys will grow up to see how disrespectful he is to their mother and he will have a relationship with his boys the same as him and his father have. He is described perfectly from the the above comments. Arrogant. Self-centered. Big-headed. Conceited. And above all A LIAR AND A CHEATER!
Ladies be careful of Horatio Major, he is very good-looking and a great personality but once you get sucked in he changes, he’ll take advantage of you and won’t care anything about you until he needs you for something. It is always about HIM, HIM, HIM, and if he is at fault for something he will turn it around on anyone else or you. Outrageous, yes indeed he will get his one day!
This is nothing new, he was on another blog with pictures posted!He is messy and always has been. The sad thing is he isn’t finished so if you’re going to mess with him do like he does and don’t fall for him! He’ll cry til he drowns his face like he’s sorry but he’s not!! Ladies ladies ladies, act like him and just stop giving a da**!! Or go tell his wife like the last one did!
All this is true- is he one big freak or hung like a horse? He’s made a fool of my cousin for years. Since I’ve never been with him I don’t really know how he can keep doing this. Cheating takes alot of work. No matter what story Horatio told my cousin and I’m sure the rest knew he was married. If you’re that gullible then maybe he’s not the only one with issues! My cousin scares away any man with her insanity so I knew she wouldn’t be wife number 3. So why even give him the time of day? He ain’t even that cute he has deep set eyes and wide nostrils.
ALL the women that entered into a relationship with Horatio are a low down dirty shame! Either they knew or should have known he was married, yet they continued to pursue a relationship with him despite their knowledge of this fact. How low-down, dirty, and shameful could they be? It is women like this who destroy marriages! Our marriages, our husbands are not safe! These women have little or no self-esteem, low morals, no self-respect and/or a disregard for religious sanctity, will do whatever it takes, at all cost to sweep our husbands away (because they obviously do not have what it takes to attract a single man of their own caliber). Obviously, once Horatio decided to end the madness with these women for his own selfish reasons or whatever revelation, it seems they suddenly realized Horatio, “Bigshot” was / is a horrible person??!! Shame on him, BUT SHAME ON ALL YOU WOMEN that entertained the idea that this man would actually leave his wife for YOU! Go find Jesus, and while you are in pursuit grow some morals, and self-respect! The only thing cllous, cold-hearted, selfish, sad, disheartening, and disrespectful about this man, is all the women that entertained his nonsense despite knowing he was a married man with child(ren)! SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Too bad your sermon is too late to save the first marriage from this “wife” he impregnated while married….sounds to me like the only victim here is the first wife.
It’s a darn “shame” that wife number two doesn’t open her eyes! She is the one who is enabling him to continue. She has listened to his lies and believes him and everything is grand again, but he’s back out there again. You are correct, shame on these women but shame on his wife for taking such a low down dirty shame back each time. She’s the one who looks like the one with no self respect for herself because people have seen him “out” there, and know what he’s about. Once, maybe twice, yes work on it but we all know it has been more than two times!!! She continues to let him have the best of both world’s by believing his lies and letting him come back.
I have been spending time with this man for the past few months now. (today’s date 12/1/11) I am so disgusted and you can bet his wife will know every detail of our time together! Paybacks are a bitch and you are the biggest of them all. Good luck BS because you’re going to need all you can get after all of the bullshit you have said to me! If wifey takes you back after I’m done with her, you’re meant to live in misery together!
@ Bliss,
You hit the nail dead on the head! The woman has no self esteem. not only did she get pregnant during his first marriage, he was NOT divorced from his wife when that first child was born. If you’ve ever seen his wedding (2nd) photos and wondered why they’re 2 year old son was in the wedding yet her family is so super Holy? It’s because he couldn’t marry her until then because he was already married. She came in to the picture when he and his wife were trying to work things out then “somehow’ got pregnant. Any woman who stoops that low has no respect for herself or anyone else. That’s why he doesn’t respect her either or anyone else. This site is a good thing so he can’t keep fooling women. She is enabling him by being a retarded doormat and the people who know him and try to act like this is some sacred holy marriage started in the eyes of God (not) are enablers too. Everything she is getting, she deserves. I think there are 3 reasons she’s staying…1)She’s stupid 2) She does have a criminal record and can’t get employment (plus she’s not educated) 3) No self esteem. BTW, her family’s “Christianity” is a front. They’re into pharmaceuticals, and I don’t mean Pfizer. Too bad when he does catch some terrible STD, some poor woman (or women) will suffer too. Whatever he catches sho stay between them. It’s funny to me how anyone can come on this site and preach to anyone, when this situation began just as the ones he’s carrying on with these other women. There’s no difference.
Please leave him alone, not out of respect for this joke of a marriage, but for your own safety. Only the two of them deserves what is coming for their sins.
@Payback
Come back and keep us posted.
I HAPPEN TO KNOW HIM FROM COLLEGE AND HE NEVER CAME OFF LIKE YOU ALL ARE DESCRIBING HIM AT ALL. HE WAS ALWAYS VERY FOCUSED AND VERY RESPECTFUL WHEN I SAW HIM, BUT I AM NOT TRYING TO CALL ANY OF YOU LIARS. IT IS JUST REALLY HARD TO BELIEVE THAT WE ARE SPEAKING OF THE SAME PERSON. I NEVER SAW HIM WITH ALOT OF WOMEN OR EVEN HEARD OF THIS. HE WAS ALWAYS STUDYING AND SMART AS HECK! BEFORE I GO ANY FURTHER, LET ME JUST SAY I HAVE NEVER BEEN WITH HIM OR EVEN SAW HIM LIKE THAT HE WAS JUST RATIO TO ME. THINK ABOUT IT: THE TREATMENT YOU RECEIVED MAY HAVE BEEN A REFLECTION OF HOW YOU CARRIED YOURSELVES BECAUSE I DID NOT SEE WERE ANY OF YOU WERE TRICKED. ALL OF YOU SAID YOU NEW HE WAS MARRIED. SO HE DID WHAT WAS EASY FOR MOST GUYS TREAT A HOE LIKE A HOE…I KNOW THE TRUTH HURTS BUT SOMEONE HAD TO TELL YOU OR YOU WOULD KEEP POSTING THIS FOOLISHNESS. NOW DOWN TO BUSINESS,TO ALL OF YOU LADIES WHO HAVE FELT THE NEED TO PUT THIS MAND ON BLAST,I AM WITH SHAME ON YOU!!! TO THE YOUNG LADY CALLING HERSELF “PAYBACK” YOU ARE A VERY “SELFISH” WOMAN TO GO TO HIS WIFE BECAUSE YOU CANNOT HAVE HIM… YOU GOT A LOT OF NERVE AND I HOPE SHE WHIPS YOUR ASS WHEN YOU STEP TO HER. SOMETIMES IT IS EASIER TO MOVE ON THAN TO BE SO DARN BITTER…I WANT ALL OF YOU TO KNOW THAT WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. WHAT I MEAN BY THIS IS… YOU MAY BE IN HIS WIFE’S SHOES SOMEDAY AND IT DOES NOT FEEL GOOD WHEN THE SHOE IS ON THE OTHER FOOT. SO DO NOT CALL HER DUMB, SHE IS JUST PROTECTING HER INVESTMENT(MARRIAGE). SHE PROBABLY KNOWS ABOUT ALL OF YOU BUT DUE TO HER CIRCUMSTANCES SHE MAY NOT BE ABLE TO LEAVE. YOU ALL HAVE ALOT TO LEARN ABOUT MARRIAGE. I TOO FEEL SORRY FOR HIS FIRST WIFE BUT I AM SURE HE IS TAKING CARE OF HIS BUSINESS WITH HER AND THOSE CHILDREN. MOREOVER, I HOPE SHE HAS NOT HAD THE PLEASURE OF READING THESE POSTS AS THEY MAY HAVE OPENED UP SOME OLD WOUNDS FOR HER. I HOPE ALL OF YOU WILL LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND LEAVE THE “MARRIED MEN” WHERE THEY ARE AT. LASTLY, THE FOLLOWING LINK MAY BE A GOOD READ FOR YOU ALL AND EVEN A SELF HELP MECHANISM. THIS ONE IS FOR ALL OF YOU BITTER GIRLS. PEACE!!! ttp://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2011/11/stop-being-the-bottom-bitch.html
Yeah, and your a dumb stalker hoe, commenting on shit you know nothing about. Opinions are like assholes, asshole. Sounds like you like to play games but by you writing I’m sure there is someone somewhere who would like nothing more than to MURK YOU AND PUT YOU IN THE GROUND. Why don’t you check out http://www.stalkingbehavior.com, you obsessed weirdo.
A prime example of why men like that are able to keep doing what they do. There is always some foolish trick who takes up for them. At the end of the day he is a whore. He has been put on blast and some random rat bastard trying to do damage control won’t make a bit of difference. As for his wife, if you don’t respect yourself no one will. I think these women know quite a bit about marriage. They know a husband who cares will not risk his wife by sleeping around. She saw the signs of who he was when he was cheating with her. Maybe she thought it would be different with her….FAIL! Sounds like she knew what she was getting into. No one here said any vows to her.
Proverbs 5:32 But a man who commits adultery lacks judgment; whoever does so destroys himself.
By the way, if you went to college with him, where did you go that you didn’t learn homonyms? “Knew” is the word you need to put, not “New.” “Where” is not spelled “Were.” What is a “Mand?” “You Got?” I think you meant “You’ve got.” There are quite a few posts, so the correct version of ass should be asses (ie. I hope she whips all of your ASSES). “Where they are at”……seriously? I’ll tell you where they are at, right behind that preposition. As long as he’s a douche bag, women will continue to share their stories here. Meanwhile, you should partake in an English class. No one listens to a dumb ass.