Post edited 7:34 pm – 12 April 2011 by Admin

I thought this was a fitting time to share a story about how I got
this website started and why. Also lots of you asked how I caught my
wife cheating so here’s the story…

My wife and I have been married for 10 years. I had never suspected
her of infidelity. But, about 1 year ago I found myself having reason to
suspect. When I sat down at our computer I noticed she had left her
Facebook page open. To my bewilderment, I saw a message from an
individual referring to her as “babe”.

Who would be calling my wife babe?

I felt the need to find out, but I knew I couldn’t just ask her. I
realized I needed to be gentle to find out what was going on. Hiring a
stranger to uncover her secrets would be embarrassing for me. I needed
to do this myself and be very careful. Spying on people isn’t something
you learn in a college classroom. I did some research on the internet
and figured out my strategy.

Firstly and I’m thinking like an investigator here, I needed to find
the vulnerabilities in my wife’s security. Being that she isn’t a
diplomat or foreign spy, this wasn’t very difficult. I didn’t know her
Facebook password, but I have access to the home computer we share.
Needing to know the truth, I was willing to spend some money in the
pursuit.

Using a Stealth iBot Computer Spy enabled me to gather all sorts of information from our computer.

I plugged it into the USB port and it installed in just a few
seconds. I could then remove it while it did its work. When I was ready
to extract the gathered data, I simply plugged it in and downloaded the
information. With this tool, I was able to recover several types of
information, perhaps the most important being keystrokes. All letters
being typed are recorded; meaning I am able to know everything that is
being typed, whether a password or a message on Facebook. I can also
view the history of websites
visited and take screenshots. My wife could do nothing on the computer
that I couldn’t know about. This may seem extreme, but it helped me
establish that she was indeed having an affair with her Facebook chats.

Before confronting my wife, I wanted to know more. From her messages
on Facebook, I knew she was talking to this person on the phone and
receiving text messages. Utilizing a Cell Phone Spy I was able to recover deleted text messages from her phone.

I could also see phone numbers that had been deleted from the phone.
It only took a moment while she was out of the room to insert her cell
phone’s SIM card into the device, and then put the SIM card back into
her phone. I could then view the information by placing it in our
computer’s USB port. The evidence from her phone wasn’t helping her
case. I was almost ready to confront her. But I still wanted to know who
exactly this other person was. With a Spark Nano GPS tracking device I
was able to find out exactly where my wife was going. I placed it in her glove box and was able to track the vehicle for up
to five days before needing the battery to be recharged. Different
locations and addresses could be recorded. Based on what I found on her
phone, I knew when she was supposed to be visiting her “friend” next.
Once she pulled into his driveway, I knew exactly where he lived. And on
the way, I could track her in real-time. I could even be alerted when
she had left a designated area of coordinates; knowing when she was
lying about where she was going to be.

Perhaps emboldened by the passage of months without already getting
caught, my wife and her lover decided to rendezvous at our house for the
first time. Knowing this from text messages I had intercepted, I
decided to catch them before it happened. I bought a new alarm clock
which just happened to have a high resolution video camera inside. The
great feature about this clock is that you can view the video feed from
your computer. When my wife’s date arrived and they ended up making
their way to the bedroom, the motion-activated camera turned on. I could then see what was happening
from behind my computer at work. I did not let it happen as a phone call
to her ruined her mood. I made sure to record it so that my wife could
see it for herself and I’ll be using it in court during the divorce.

I now had what I believed was enough evidence to present to my wife:
dozens of messages on Facebook, email and texting. Phone logs of their
near daily calls. GPS records of her visits to his house. Video of the
two of them in bed. When first confronted, she couldn’t believe how I
would dare accuse her of such deceit. Instead of arguing about it, I
just played the video for her. She was quiet. And then angry. And then
sad. Knowing she couldn’t win, she confessed. Within a few minutes she
just walked out of the room. and I moved out that night. I am
devastated by her actions but don’t let something like this go too far.

Get the proof you need or prove it’s not happening and get out. I am
grateful that technology could help me in such a huge way; even if the
results were not happy ones.

While men "cheat" because it is in their DNA to pursue and bed women they find sexually desirable, when a married woman cheats, its usually (not always) the husband's fault.  A woman "in love" will almost never cheat.  Rather than becoming a spy, why not try to make your woman happy? 

Your wife cheated the marriage is done-nothing to work out there. Get someone better and take marriage more seriously and the vows and do not enable it to be the way you have describe.

Absolutely, nothing to work out once they cheat or sleep with someone else. Absolutely nothing and have some more respect for yourself.