My husband had an affair with Deanna and ended it when I found out. She was pregnant at the time and has since used the baby as a tool to ruin my life. She posts on Facebook that they are still together. She sends me emails telling me I am married on paper only. She just recently discovered that I tried to commit suicide when her baby was born and now she is making my life even harder. I think she wants me to kill myself. Deanna Wer Poplawski is from Somersworth NH. Her email address is mystic3929@yahoo.com.
This post was submitted by Melonie Bickford.
I am Deanna and her husband was not with her, he was with me every night and every day after work. He told me she was bi polar and to ignore all contact from her because she was making his life miserable. He told me they were not together were not going to ever be together and thatshe was delusional. She is now remarried I am still by the way with him. Oh an i never used our child against him and never would. He new that from the beginning i told him if he wanted to go back to his wife he could I would not stand in his way or ask for anything from him. I never would be with a man who was with someone else. I am not like that. I have many many friends and you can ask anyone of them. I am an honest, faithful woman. I never wanted you to harm yourself. You were not apart of our life. Im sorry you felt i was this horrible person but he and i were happy. I hear you are happy now too with your new husband and i congratulate you. I only wished you thebest
Oh and this sort of thing along with messaging my friends and family telling them i was a liar even though they all saw us together all the time and i had many many pics etc, showed me hewas right you were not a sane,rational person
Deanna it is very eaqsy to tell you were lied to , tgo get into your pants, they were on paper married which makes her assumption correcr. you admitting that he was with you makes her comments correct…. i wondr what other lies you have commited
It all sounds pretty childish and full of poor decisions and selfishness to me.
Melonie…just move on and be happy that you didn’t end up with the boobie prize. You shouldn’t give your ex or in all probability his next ex any more thought and time. The messaging and carrying on is childish.
Deanna…this can be filed under “a lesson you have bought and paid for or a lesson on layaway”. You walked into this situation knowing this guy was married with drama so your statement, “I never would be with a man who was with someone else” is untrue. Regardless of how bad the situation was for him at home, he was still married and any issues him and his ex wife had at the time should have been resolved prior to you entering the equation. Your decision was indeed a poor and selfish one and hope you do not find yourself on the receiving end of infidelity.
Sounds like the wife didnt move on even though her ex husband had. If a man wants a divorce you can drag it out but eventually he will get it. Which odviously was the case seeing he wasnt with her and had his new woman and child.
I dont see anything wrong with him having a gf before his divorce. Divorces can drag out a few years. No reason to stop living your live. My divorce to over 2 yrs. Not fair for me to hold back from moving on because my ex couldnt accept and let go.
Hope you both are happy now
Sounds like a lot of bitter woman on here who cant get over there exs. Its obvious this wife was trying to hang on to someone who know longer wanted her and wanted someone else. she stalked him and his new woman who he is with ,apparently still is. Hope she gets a clue.
Seems to me that this Melonie chick was not a smart women for posting something online to make her self seem creepy. Just because you were married did not mean this man wanted to be with you clearly he wanted a divorce, and someone wasn’t willing enough to let him have what he wanted in stead you drag it out and tried your hardest which only made you seem more sketchy. Clearly this Deanna women is still with the man and has a kid. To put where this woman lives and her email is just pathetic on your part. if your married now hope the hell you stay away from other people and stop being a low life. When deanna said she would never be with someone who was with someone else he wasnt with anyone else so that statement is indeed true. Divorces do take a while and i agree you can go on enjoying your life and moving on. Hope all is well.