Dave Alan Williams

When I met Dave Williams he said he was divorced, I had no reason to doubt him. During the years we dated he was attentive, generous and there was the understanding we were in a committed relationship, marriage had been discussed. I have found out he is married and has been for 27 years, never separated. He travels for business a lot, that was how he was able to live at least 2 lives, his wife and children live in Co. I have also discovered there are many more women he has been “dating” then and now. He has been on several dating sites such as Friend Finder, Match, Millionaire Match, Yahoo, My Space, etc. It was devastating to find all this out, he had my family, friends and even my children fooled right along with me. His wife has been informed and this is not the first time she has found out, but she allows him back, as he spins tales of him being the victim of crazy women, etc. This man is convincing, a continuous liar and calculating, he is friendly, appears compassionate and caring, very good at deflecting blame. I am posting this as a decent woman who wished someone before me had posted something about him to warn me, I hope this can help someone else who may have met him.

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27 Responses to Dave Alan Williams

  1. Bob Hill at 7:00 pm

    FALSE STORY.. Lies told by Kelley Cahill: Dave was separated from his wife for over 3 years before he met kelly.. separated.. NOT LIVING WITH HERE AS A MARRIED MAN… so that is not cheating. And that is living as a married man. Dave continued to supported his to be x wife and his boy, which a good man does. Kelly knew he was not divorced..( We spoke of it at dinner party’s we had) so ask your self this.. Dave’s only problem is he was attracted to the fake newport beach look.. and he got that and more then be signed up for with kelly.. they both messed up their relationship evenly.. Kelly is the typical newport beach insecure 40 something year old single woman. Just looking at her and you can tell that. It sad that she has not moved on.. Dave moved on.. and still get hammered by her.. My wife is even appalled by kellys actions and most recent actions.. We saw their relationship grow and fold.. From the love they both shared to the bitter demise of their relationship.. and everything between…. there was no gold digging here.. They were both struggling when they met each other… they only looked as good as they did since they refinanced the house they bought together (and lived together) They pissed away the the money form the refi for the lavish life style.. Ran up dept.. Both of them.. so dave is no bad guy.. kelly is just a scorn woman that wants revenge on dave.. Re why this is still going.. dave moved on.. he has been making a new life for him self as kelly does her best to ruin it .. so there is the real story.. I know kelly will respond to this.. she contact me via FB a year ago and tried to convince me that she was the innocent party.. Then proceeded to hammer me and tell me what a bad person I am.. lol.. The story is never what you see it.. but I have just told you what really happened.. Since I was there and was the 3rd party…

  2. Dear Bob at 3:25 am

    By nature I’m someone that prefers to move on during tough times, as opposed to “beating a dead horse”. I think it’s healthy to do what you can to turn a negative tide that is headed your way, although it’s just as healthy to know when to stop and move toward peace of mind and forgiveness.
    It’s with this mindset that I find myself still feeling as if it’s important for me to say something here, even though I have moved on from the situation. Certain things have come to light, and nasty statements are flying around. The statements defending Mr. Williams I find the most disturbing of all.
    I’m referring to the topic of Dave Williams and allegations that he lies and takes advantage of women, while being married. There was a 20/20 special entitled “We Find Them”; Chris Cuomo interviewed Kelley Cahill who told her story of her relationship with Dave Williams.
    It makes me sick to see that Mr. Williams continues to put down Kelley and all the other women he has scammed. Part of me understands and believes that once someone chronically lies to people on this level, then they sure as hell aren’t going to suddenly show character when they’re caught. I don’t have confidence that Mr. Williams is operating from any genuine place of feeling or remorse either. Knowing this intellectually doesn’t negate feeling it and still being disgusted.

    All I can do is throw in my 2 cents, which actually amounts to quite a bit when you consider that I have first-hand experience of being lied to and emotionally scammed by Dave Williams. He did it all with such ease, such conviction and devotion. It didn’t stop with me either; he continued the very detailed and calculating lies in the lives of my children, friends, family and coworkers. He did this with me for years, which was also many years after dating Kelley I might add. When I discovered he was very much married and not separated, all the facts came straight from his wife. She was the one that put all the pieces together, being open about how devastated she was from this herself, and finding all the other women. There is no point in going on further about the pain he has created in so many lives, that truly would be like “beating a dead horse”.

    I don’t expect Mr Williams to admit to himself or anyone else that he deserves to be held accountable for all the things he has done, that’s part of what not having character is about. What I would like to focus on is all the people he has hurt; they deserve to be treated with some measure of kindness. I don’t care if some of the women are doctors, and some are school drop outs, how does any of that even factor into being scammed by a liar? Stop judging the women that gave their hearts to someone who never intended to be honest or treat them with respect.

    Can a chronic liar and cheat ever change? We shall see. Mr. Williams; now is your chance, so what are you going to do with it?

  3. anonymous at 12:07 am

    Oh hell, this Dave guy must be related to the greek guy on here. These men are pathetic. Someone should cut their balls off and shove them down their throats.

  4. One of Dave William's Victims at 7:33 pm

    I was directly (romantically) involved with Dave Williams for several years and I too was lied to about his marital status. I am posting here simply to back the truth as well as support the amazing comment left by “Dear Bob” on July 4th, 2011. Whoever authored that remark deserves to be commended for their purity of wisdom and insight. Please accept my heartfelt gratitude for the kindness and compassion that you have extended to all of us that have fallen victim to Dave Williams and his schemes. One last note; my heart absolutely aches for his children – they are the victims that will suffer the worst of this for the remainder of their lives. I wish peace and many blessings to all that know and defend the truth, yet very readily offer prayer for the those that don’t.

  5. One who knew and met Dave online at 6:34 pm

    I met Dave W. online many years ago and he said he was divorced but goes back to Colorado to see his kids. A few years later, I met two women who have dated him and one was even engaged. It was then, I learned he was married.
    A married man, even if separated and out of the home, is STILL married. No legal separation or filing for divorce was ever in process and he told women he was divorced and had profiles on multiple dating sites. This is a man who chose to skip out on his wife and kids to have fun and find opportunities elsewhere.
    He has willingly inflicted emotional, physical and financial pain with his lies. He has lied to his wife, children and the women he was involved with as well as their kids. This is not a good man!
    I don’t understand why his wife continues to stand by him when he disrespects and dishonors her over and over again. He will not change!
    I wish for his wife Virginia, to come to realize she deserves better than this and get help. I commend his son, Brady, for standing up, having moral integrity and being a bigger man than his father. I hope the other kids will know right from wrong and carry on with healthy relationships and not follow in their father’s footsteps. I pray for the women who have fallen victim to Dave William’s to have faith, courage and strength as they help to prevent more victims and lead people towards future successful relationships.
    He will have to answer for his actions one day and let’s hope he will feel the weight of his horrible deeds for a very long time!

  6. ME TOO at 2:47 pm

    I met Dave W online myself, but it was much more recent than some of the previous women here. He told me the same things, he is divorced, visits his sons as often as he can. He even told me his wife had ruined his relationships with his sons, so he was trying to rebuild them! He said he was on business trips the majority of the time and complained that all he wanted was to settle down somewhere and have a simple life with someone. He said he was looking for someone that had inner beauty and kindness.
    Its very good that this can serve as a notice for other women that he will try the same game with. I’m disgusted!

  7. @bob be careful who you defend and befriend. Obviously, you’re just another victim who was deceived by dave williams. don’t be angry or upset, it happens to many. it happened to all of us who’ve posted here. liars and cheats like mr. williams get so good at lying their way thru life (mine wasn’t dave but there are others out there just as bad) that they convince their family and friends about their “facade” of the good guy who was himself the “victim”. these same acquaintenance, friends and family often “go to the mat” defending their friend as the perceived “victim”. it’s persons like yourself,unfortunately, that validate and help him deny his actions and allow him to continute. if he was my friend, i’d call him out on it and stop the b*******. end of story.
    http://cheatbuster.wordpress.com/enlightenment-from-onions/the-exploits-and-misadventures-of-onion-boy/

  8. anonymous at 4:12 pm

    Its really sad to see what this has done to these women he lied to, but is anybody wondering about his wife?? I dont want to take away any acknowledgment from how he treated these women he dated for so long, but his ultimate victim is his wife. He chooses to lie and disrespect her over and over for years and she allows it, over and over for years. It seems like he is good at manipulating her most of all, maybe she has been abused like this so long she doesnt even see it. Sad! Guys like this do just enough to make it look and feel good on the outside, then work behind the scenes to do their real dirty destructive stuff.

  9. want for nothing at 9:06 pm

    I too was romantically involved with Dave Williams, for close to two years. He also lied to me about his marital status, with ongoing details about the failings of his “ex wife”, how much a victim he had been in his divorce, jobs, marriage and in his relationships with his sons. I actually bought into these fabrications for a long time, he can be very convincing when he lies. But, eventually the patterns started to emerge and his victim role got boring, predictable, and suspicious. The reality is he victimizes as many people as he can, whether its an unsuspecting woman he is dating, someone he considers a friend or his wife, who is knowingly allowing herself to be a victim.

    I haven’t reached the point of actually being able to forgive him, but I have reached the point of not being invested in this anymore. As crazy as this may sound, I’m even able to acknowledge that we did have some fun, happy and content moments together. Of course this doesn’t negate the fact that I was operating within an overall unknown lie, but it does give me the ability to take even some good out of the experience without living in a fools paradise.
    Life can be very challenging and painful, but my choice has always been to accept the fact that sometimes we ARE fooled and manipulated no matter how smart we are or carefully we tread, there are bad people in this world and sometimes our hearts do get broken…but we don’t have to be broken as a result.

  10. LOOK OUT LADIES, HE IS ONLINE!!Look for these clues-
    likes red wine, sunsets, long walks on the beach, says he is looking for inner beauty, says he graduated from college (lie), says he’s divorced (LIE), says his best feature is his lips (with more lies behind them), says a couple extra pounds is ok (no comment), and he says he likes romance and erotica. BEWARE

  11. kelley Cahill at 6:12 pm

    Thank you Lisa for posting this. If you care to contact me and let me know which site you saw this on I am on FB * )) This LOSER has to be STOPPED!!!!!

  12. This guy doesn’t live in Denver does he???

  13. wakeupcall at 1:51 am

    lol, I think it’s fairly obvious who is nuts in all these reports…and it isn’t Kelley. Also, to save the above person the trouble, please don’t waste your time trying to make it look like all the victims are the ones that are “nuts”. To repeat: the victims of this guy’s lies and manipulation do not deserve or qualify for the tag of being crazy or insecure, or whatever it is you keep trying to pin on them.

  14. whatever at 2:06 am

    Do you stay up all night waiting to post something? You must be the same person leaving comments at 3am.

  15. Looks like you stay up until at least 2:06 am to post something

  16. betterthanu at 7:36 am

    Even after all is said and done, there are small portions of moments that I miss the man I thought you were

  17. on and on and on at 1:50 am

    Really sounds like the same person on here leaving posts and pretending to be someone new each time, trying to get a reaction. Move on people, seriously.

  18. nicetry at 4:52 pm

    What am I missing?.. because these posts don’t sound like they are all the same person.
    One thing I do notice though is that Dave Williams left a post on another site saying all posts were by the same person too. After getting confirmation that wasn’t the case he stopped posting. I think he is the one that doesn’t really want anyone to forget about him, even if it is to remember how insecure and messed up he is

  19. He’s gettin old but he sure isn’t rich.lol All the women here know where he works, what his emails are and where he lives. But,who knows maybe it’s one of his new fake emails

  20. Becka Walsh at 3:54 am

    Seriously?? A married cheater huh, nice. Jerk

  21. Thank you for posting this information about Dave Williams. I was even able to see the photo, and although it was a disgusting pose, I was able to identify him with no doubt.

    The only comment I’ll leave is that you just never really know who you are dealing with.

  22. ATTENTION: ANY WOMAN WHO HAS BEEN DECEIVED BY DAVE WILLIAMS OR DAVID WILLIAMS THAT WOULD LIKE TELL THEIR STORY TO THE AUTHORITIES OR SHARE WHAT HAPPENED PRIVATELY PLEASE CONTACT [email protected]

    HE HAS TO BE STOPPED FROM CONNING AND LYING TO UNSUSPECTING WOMEN SO LETS STOP HIM.

  23. I don’t know what the other women look like, but Kelley you sure are better looking than his wife!!

  24. Anonymous at 9:39 pm

    How do we know how recent these comments are? Is this man still active online?

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