So. Dar is Married to Rick Beres from Magrath Alberta. Rick and I were Friends from High School but had not really had much contact though the years, aside from the occasional visit.
She had asked me to come up and stay with her kids and some friends to go to a concert in Edmonton. I said sure.
Dar and I hung around while the her kids and kids friends were gone. I had sensed an attraction from her a couple years before and she was opening up to me in some pretty cool ways. I was SINGLE at the time and truthfully cared more about how I was feeling at the moment. We shared a connection for sure. So one thing led to another and we were intimate.
Dar then proceeded to drive 5 hours to Edmonton just to see me or she would plan to come and see me when she was in Calgary getting seeing doctors. She was super unhappy in her marriage because Rick is a mean, angry, grumpy, chronic video game player who, every now and then presses his wife into performing her marital duties. Sounds sexy hey.
So while I was not hiding her from anyone in my life, She was lying to everyone in her life.
Who’s the Liar?
Dar had a huge meltdown when I wouldn’t come to Calgary and spend time in a hotel with her. I was all of the sudden some kind of monster because I was unavailable to drop everything to spend a few hours with her in a hotel. We didn’t tlk for almost a year.
Then we started talking again. I know, I shouldn’t have but hey I was single. She came up to edmonton a couple times. I went to Calgary once. This time it was way worse. The year had not been kind to her. She was more unhappy and more desperate. I was getting kind of turned off. It was just weird. and by this time Rick had started to exhibit behavior that frankly scared me.
He began sending emails to people I knew, He posted some of my personal information that I have shared openly on the Internet. The things he Posted were just not true. He had some of his friends post things as well, they don’t even know who I am.
Just for good measure, some random former student decided to say some things about me and How I work. Hahahahaha. Funny. Y’know I taught over 1000 people directly in my career and there certainly were some of my students who hated the very sight of me. I was ok with that. It’s part of the job.
So, after the last time I saw her I had planned to tell her that it was completely over. She knew but as her style she wanted to start a fight and call me a bunch of names and tell me… I dunno what, I stopped paying attention to her texts after a while.
I really did think that if it were not for her crippling emotional damage and her lack of ability to get the divorce she wanted her whole marriage, we may have actually had a chance.
Rick Beres was an entirely different matter. DAr sent me letters stating that rick had physically threatened me harm. I was “text attacked with a stream of over 2600 text messages in a span of 48 hours. I would say it was Rick. He posted my name as a sock puppet, along with erroneous information on Cheaters and Liars and then created sock puppets to comment on his posts. He also created sock puppets on Facebook to try to track me of keep tabs on me. not sure if it was him of Dar. Who knows.
So a while back in nov/dec I told both of them that I did not want any contact from either of them ever again.
I truly do not want either of these people or anyone they are close to in my life. They are a whole bunch of do not want. I wish them both well in the future. but I at no time want anything to do with either of them ever.
They are not well mentally, emotionally or physically.
So when it comes down to it. who was the cheater and Liar. Dar Johnson Beres was. I didn’t lie and I certainly was single at the time. So I guess I didn’t cheat either.
I felt it was important to clear the air about this. If my name is going to associated with being on this site I figured it would be best to clearly tell my side of the story a little while later after I didn’t feel any emotion about it.
That is all.
This post was submitted by Per David Sannes.
I already posted a response to this post under the name, David Sannes, on this site. I will post my response here as well. I have no intention of bantering back and forth, or discussing any more of my personal life, as this is not the place, and it is nobody else’s business.
I find it interesting that you, David, are so worried about your name and reputation. And the only way that you can “clear” your spotless reputation, is to talk badly about others.
You are only telling half truths, while you are back pedaling. I know the truth, and you know the truth. I could care less what you think about me now. I know your true colours, and what you are really like. You don’t care about anyone, or their feelings. You care about yourself, which is great, because you are going to end up a miserable, lonely, old man.
You are a liar. As a matter of fact, YOU ARE THE BIGGEST LIAR I KNOW! You say just what people want to hear at the time. Whatever will benefit you. You are not honest with anyone around you, or to yourself. You have to hurt everyone around you in order to make yourself feel good. You think that you can say or do whatever necessary to benefit yourself or come out looking good. When in fact, it makes you look like an ass, and it is hurtful to everyone else.
If you think posting this, or putting up a post under my name is going to hurt me, or get back at me…I don’t care! I don’t care what you think, or, what the interweb world thinks. I care what the people in my life who I love, and I care about think. I have more important things to worry about. I am finding peace in my life. I have a husband who truly loves, and cares for me, through all of this. I can’t be bothered with false friendships, or relationships built on lies. You are not worth any more of my time or energy.
So, to clarify for you…PER DAVID SANNES, and help you with your “confusion” as to why your name was posted on this site.
You betray people. Trusts. Friendships. Relationships. If you feel like it will benefit you…you would throw anyone under the bus. You don’t care who you hurt along the way.
YOU LIE…you can’t be real. You have to put on a front for everyone. Trying to make yourself look like the good guy, in any situation. You are a big-talker, a people-pleaser. Saying whatever you think people want to hear. You just can’t be honest. Can’t be real.
You say I am the liar…well, at least I don’t need to pretend to be something I am not for people to like me, or love me. I keep it real. I am who I am. I don’t have to hurt those around me to feel good about myself. I don’t have to pretend to be something I am not for people to love, like, or even tolerate me. I have people who love me, and accept me just the way I am. I would never share personal things that friends have shared with me, because I am trustworthy, even to those who have hurt or wronged me. I may have made mistakes, but I am still loved, and I own those mistakes, and don’t throw anyone else under the bus. I say it like it is.
You, David Sannes, hurt everyone you come in contact with, because can’t even be true to yourself. Before you start pointing out others problems, and recommending what everyone else needs…take a long, hard look at yourself.
And seriously….if you think we were making aliases to keep track of you, or that I even want to contact you, or whatever, don’t flatter yourself. We have better things to do! Get over yourself.
I love my husband, and I am so lucky to have a man who has stood by me through everything in my life…especially this. I am just so sorry that I have put him through all of this hurt, and sadness. But, I know that we will make it through, because we have a love that is real. We have a connection that you will never know, because you do NOT know what Truth or Love even is.
sounds like you are a real skank Dar..lol…you cum guzzling whore on wheels
David Sannes & D.A.R. (Dumb Arrogant Robot)…you two deserve each other! I sure hope either of you don’t EVER have children!