As a husband he cheated throughout our marriage. When I was pregnant and when we had kids. He put the health of me and my unborn child at risk for diseases. He physically assulted me.
The Homewreckers that slept with him: Tracy Bednaz of the East Granby area
Seana Holland of the DC area
I dont recall all their names but there were much more than 2 homewreckers in this situation. Chick seems to like waitresses since Tracy is one, and a few of the girls I called and confronted were waitresses. Chick is a CT State Trooper.
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- Chick Bistany
This post was submitted by Kristin.
Let um go, boy, sure fits the description of most of the police officers in my area, Most of them womanizers and cheaters, Be grateful you know now, you can now be free of his lies. My condolences for ever meeting someone like this, time for a change honey.
I feel so sorry for you Kristin. Your obsession and infatuation with Chick and I is truly concerning. Maybe if you took care of your husband the way a woman should, he wouldn’t have gone out of his way to replace you. You are unstable and weak. My relationship with Chick is incredible. He is the BEST boyfriend any woman would kill to have. You can keep calling me a homewrecker and any name you choose, but at the end of the day, you are jealous. I have the life you so wanted. I have your ex-husbands love and affection, that’s something you never had and never will have. Maybe if you took the time that you take harassing us and put in some effort you could actually amount to something one day. Till that day, keep it up. We laugh at you. You are doing nothing to hurt us. You are only hurting yourself
thanks for making us stronger 
Tracy you sound like the loser in this situation. You get leftovers that cheat and assult their wife. Good luck. You’ll be in the wifes shoes one day and she’ll be laughing at you. You are a sad individual. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Alicia, you sound like you’ve been lied and cheated on too… are you just as desperate as the others? Posting your “feel sorry for me” rants about the man that ruined your life. What’s the matter with you women? Doesn’t your vocabulary contain the word INDEPENDENT? Maybe you and Kristin should go take some classes or go to group therapy together… clearly you girls could learn a few things or get some advice on how to move on.
Btw, I’m picturing a miserable, overweight, and unstable woman sitting at her computer using google to find ways to try to make your poor ex-husbands look bad… while they are celebrating every night that they finally got away from you. Ha. Enjoy your crappy NEW lifestyle. You both clearly suck at life…
Apparently this idiot doesn’t realize everytime she posts a reply the story of her loser boyfriend gets more and more popular on this site. Wonder if the wife knows what she’s saying? Hey there are cases that have been won when the wife sues the “other woman”.
Tracy, Alicia never said she “felt sorry for you”(maybe you feel sorry for yourself). You quoted it incorrectly when the message was easily understood and clear. She said “You are a sad individual.”. Make no mistake, no one feels sorry for you, nor will they. Keep living in you fantacy life with you wife abusing falandering boyfriend “any woman would kill for”. HA what a joke.
At the end of the day you are jealous of the wife. You may think you “have her ex-husbands love and affection, that’s something she never had and never will have.” She had it(and may still), he married her and had kids. You are just a loose woman who slept with a married man. Shame on you. Your parents must be so proud of their daughter.
Also…seems like someone doesn’t already trust the “BEST boyfriend”…looking him up online and all. Smart, never trust a cheater, if he cheater on her he’ll do it to you.
You are a sad individual…I never said I felt sorry for you. You can’t find your own man so you break up a family? You sound incredibly immature. These two got married and had a family and you think that the wife should just move on? You think it’s acceptable to ruin families? You are a stupid child.
And btw…you picturing a miserable, overweight, unstable woman must be you looking into the mirror or the future.
Boy are you “winning” Tracy. I hope Kristen is reading all this, laughing, and calling her lawyer to sue you. He attacked his wife and is a cop, wow what a prize. Where can I find a man like that??? PRISON usually. Why would Kristen be jealous of you…you have her trash. I’m not jealous of the waitress who picks up my leftovers at a restaurant. Oh right, you know all about picking up others leftovers because you’re just a waitress. You sure do know how to take care of your customers, by stealing they’re husbands.
What do you know about being independent? You latched onto a married man with a family. Do you live on your own or with mommy and daddy paying your bills?
You and your prize are just low lifes and now the internet knows it.
Wow, people who are lied to and cheated on by they’re spouses are “desperate”??? Is that what you think? YOU are desperate. You’re scared that your boyfriend will do the same to you. Replace you. That’s why you keep checking up on him on this site. Hell maybe you’re scared that when the fun of playing in the dirt no longer appeals to him he’ll want the woman HE MARRIED back. Seems like you are the one that needs therapy. Going after married men makes you many things, the wife was clearly being polite ONLY calling you a home wrecker.
Haha I’m that amazing that I can break up a “marriage”? What about the “vows”? Idk, just sayin… You old ladies make me laugh. I’m going to go waitress because apparently that’s all I can do and break up some more marriages…
Oh, btw, do you know where your husband is? I bet he’s out chasing a 24 year old blonde
enjoy
Wow is this child stupid. And you are a child Tracy. Apparently you cannot understand(because of a lack of a good education) so let me spell it out for you so that your 8th grade mind can understand. You are a bottom feeder, a low life and pure trash. Wish we knew what the real Tracy looked like…you’re probably ugly as shit but easy so men tell you how pretty you are to get your elastic waist pants off. Youre a waitress that lives at home with mommy and daddy paying your bills. You go on this site to argue with strangers trying to justify your actions to women who simply think you’re gross. Maybe you need a better life, pick up some extra shifts at your lousy job serving other trash. I on the other hand have a wonderful man who has never assaulted or cheated on anyone. Someone I will never have to continually google. I also have a man that is not on this site, you do. I guess you win! Have a great day with your sloppy seconds.
Alicia you hit the nail on the head. How pathetic is this girl? She’ll learn one day when mr. wonderful cheater does to her what he did to his wife with some younger dirty skank. Kristen will be laughing and watching Tracy and her incredible relationship crumble and enjoy as karma rears it’s ugly head.
Can’t wait for the next “Tracy thinking she’s in the right” response!
This will be my closing statement to all you scorned, sad, pathetic excuses for
women… Alicia, you are so dumb. Apparently I need to spell a few things out
for you. This is pure entertainment for me. I, unlike you and the others, don’t
take this seriously. I’m not upset or offended by any of you or your stupid
allegations. Apparently you believe everything that everyone writes on the
internet or on this crazy website is the truth. Did you live in the house with them? Do you know me? Do you even know the truth? I guess it doesn’t really matter. You are sheltered and naïve. You are the epitomy of a miserable woman defending your relationship to the fullest. You are trying so hard to convince yourself and the others that its always “the other woman”. I am flattered that you believe that I am powerful enough to destroy a marriage and a family. Its so easy to point your finger and accuse someone else. Open your eyes and take a good look at the situation. Perhaps you all should be more attentive to your men and your own lives rather than wasting your time on this website… Which btw is a simple e-mail notification of another comment, not me “googling” my boyfriend. You must be friends with Kristin, because you’re both clearly uneducated, miserable and truly pathetic. Go take your crazy pills and don’t forget to discuss this matter and me with your therapist during your next session…
Kristin, thank you for making ladies aware of this POS. You are doing the public a favor. It’s hard to believe that some people are stupid enough to think that the person will never do it to THEM. Tracy…you will learn…idiot! Or do you go by marshmellow face? Kristin has a better man than you do..If everyone thinks you are f’in stupid, then what? We are ALL worng and you, at 24, know it all? Karma is a bitch.:)
Apparently Tracy you do take this seriously. You keep coming back. Did you live with Kristen and her husband? No. So how do you know what went on. Do I know you? Yes. You are a loser. An ugly child that starves for the attention of others. You can’t seem to create a life of your own so you latch onto a man with a ready made life. You live at home with your parents and take orders for a living. You are an ignorant whore. You chose to get involved with a married man. What about the “vows”? Well that’s all on your boyfriend. He’s the one who didn’t take his marriage seriously. He has absolutely no moral character and his word means nothing. Are you so dumb that you he won’t do it to you? What’s your boyfriend doing while you’re serving up the specials of the day? You don’t know. He’s probably at some other shit hole restaurant getting the specials from some other whore waitress. Except now there’s no wedding ring to show he’s a taken man. Hmmm…wonder what he does when he’s off “working” or out with his friends. Think about it….you know you already worry he’s cheating. It’s just a matter of time.
You both are dumb as a rock for dating a cop. They are the absolute scum of the earth. Good luck, bimbos.
Tracy, how can u be sooooo f,in stupid? I think u r cum drunk. Open ur eyes and notice some things. First, he has a dick, he is going to stick it where ever someone asks him to. Second, he is a man, we lie when it comes to sex. Third, he is a cop, they are more crooked than all the rest of us put together. They use their badge to get them what they want, and what they want is sex. You have sooooooooo much to learn. At 24 u r a total dumbass and don’t know it. I hope he rips your heart out and shits in the hole…..then u will remember all of us that are wrong.
Hey bitchessss. This excites me to the extreme. I find it slightly hilarious how everyone is so concerned with this one female’s love life. How would you let someone you don’t know affect you so easily? Personally,I think tracy sounds like a lovely girl. It is unfortunate she must sit here and defend this relationship she has. Also I am pretty sure we need to re-look up the definition of a home wrecker. I mean the guy was going through a divorce right?? So clearly he wasn’t happy with what he had. We are in the year 2012 people…marriages don’t always work out. So lets not bash Tracy for who she has fallen in love with. He clearly left this Kristen before he met Tracy. So this Kristen is trying to blame this girl for her failed marriage, it just sounds so absurd to me….anywhoosss I need to get back to my bottle of wine…see all you bitchyyyss laterrr.
Steph must be a friend of Tracy’s. You’re the only person here defending the skank. Um steph…read the top. They were married. Who said anything about them going through a divorce when she decided to be a slut and fuck a married man. And may I ask how do you know any of this affects us? I’m just commenting on some dumb child thinking at 24 she knows it all. Believe me, no one is losing any sleep over Tracy and her loser boyfriend. I find all this funny because this cunt seems to think she can explain away her and his disgusting behavior. And really…how does Tracy know anything about the marriage she inserted herself into? He’s a liar. He lies to her. He cheats on her. He’s off screwing some other cheap sluts while she’s at work or while he’s at work. She’s just a dumb child who will learn the hard way. And steph we all know what year it is, no need to remind us. Vows are still taken here in 2012 and are expected to be taken seriously. You must be a dumb child too. ESPECIALLY by the way you type. You must have recieved a stellar education. Have fun discussing all this with Tracy. Unless you are Tracy. Then you’re just a pathetic whore.
HA! YOU BETTER BE HAVING THAT PIG WRAP THAT SHIT UP….WHO KNIOWS WHAT KIND OF SHIT HE’S COMING BACK TO YOU WITH. YOU ARE A PIG TRACY…MEN LOVE PIGS!!!!!! ALL YOU ARE IS 3 HOLES FOR HIM TO STICK HIS GROSS COCK IN! HAVE FUN YA PIG!
I guess this cunt isn’t getting the email notifications…maybe she grew a brain a left the cheater. Where’s your responses now tracy…or don’t you have any good ones? Tracy starts the drama yet can’t handle it when no one feels sorry for her??? typical child. You must be off crying about your pathetic life.
Bah!! Clearly, no one has the TWO sides of the story… unless you are so lonely and pathetic that you have spent endless hours on this, and other similar websites. Tracy, I give props to you for standing up for yourself and your love!! Secondly, if you believe everything posted on the Internet you are undoubtedly uneducated, naive (ie; lack of experience, intelligence or judgement) and nonsensical (stupid). Before you start bashing a woman who has taken on the responsibilities of children (whom she did not have to), the abuse of “an EX-wife” (whom she did not have to), the financial responsibilities (which she did not have to), and who stood up for herself in a public forum (which she did not have to) Maybe YOU should think about what the other side of the story might look like, and what a courageous and independent woman SHE is, or what YOU could be if you put YOUR mind to it!! Oh, And It would be an injustice not to include that Kristin committed adultry, is habitually intoxicated, and can not provide a sanitary or stable environment for her children… Just to mention a few of her failures. Always ASK, NEVER assume!! Or… Just believe everything you read on the Internet …
Tracy you are so transparent. Did someone write the last post for you or did you think that nonsense on your own? Karma-yea Tracy we all know it’s you. No one believes a word you say or anyone else who defends you. Go back living your stupid life and leave the wife out of it. SHE has clearly left you alone on here, grow up and do the same. Stop acting like a little brat.
Your husband doesn’t want you. Get over it and move on. Look for someone who cares about you not someone who doesn’t want to be with you. trying to ruin his reputation on his site makes you look desperate. Try speaking to shrink darling!
You(Tracy) need a life. Stop pretending you’re karma or brittanica or whatever your next name is going to be. So pathetic. It makes you look stupid coming here and defending yourself. Yea I get the updates also just to see what bullshit will spill out next over this loser. NO ONE WANTS YOUR LOSER BOYFRIEND. Stop pretending anyone but your sorry ass does. Kristen isn’t here adding, why are you? I’m sure she has plenty to say. You and your clever brain keep thinking up names to talk about someone you don’t know while I bet she’s off happy as can be not giving you or her husband a second thought. You better be careful…look up the word “libel”….you better be 100% right about what garbage you shit out your mouth and put on the internet. Hopefully you’re not getting information from a obvious liar(your incredible boyfriend). And ruining anyone’s reputation was done by the two of you…certainly not by the wife. And attempting to ruin the wife’s reputation will do wonders for her kids you seem to be taking care of. Grow up and push out your own kids.